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EmilyRumboldt

United Kingdom

Desperately trying to make a difference...
Drastically unsuccessful doing so.

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All kinds of feedback is welcome, along with any other comments you may have. Please, however, be aware that Labels is heavily based on a social issue that is personal to a lot of people including myself, so avoid anything that may offend other readers.

Labels

April 16, 2016

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Miss; Mrs; Ms; Mr - please select your title.
But I don't want to choose; how can I?
You forgot someone. You forgot about me.
I think: perhaps it was an honest mistake
Because how could you forget? I'm right here.
So I draw a new box and label it with nothing,
It's my box. The box for the ambiguous.
But they reject my entry, because ambiguity is not allowed.
 
I think: maybe it’s nothing personal.
Perhaps it’s merely a craving, a sheer desire for
Perfection, order that can only come through force.
Force at the expense of our dignity.
We’re the reason they wear warning signs, or so they say.
Labels – forced through our skin and around our necks.
Choking us, infecting us with words, because
Labels are meant for clothes, not people.
 
Or perhaps that’s exactly how they see us:
Accessories. They show us off to the world like
Possessions, collectables with labels intact,
Because without them we’d be worthless.
We’re rare specimens, but not quite precious enough
To leave on the shelf, so they drag us around.
An eccentric’s bragging rights. The freak show
That doesn’t understand gender. Poor, confused soul.
 
And what about me? I followed your rules, didn’t I?
I ticked your box; I followed your code. Or is one
Label not enough for you? Perhaps it’s not enough to
Force one weight upon myself. No, instead you expect us
To chain ourselves down further, to brand ourselves
Like criminals. Well let me tell you, I’ve spent enough time
In a prison, and I know how to get out of one. Only before
I wasn’t guarded by others. I imprisoned myself.
 
Dark; cruel; chokingly claustrophobic. That closet
Was my cell. So why did I lock myself inside?
In the years it took me to break down those walls
It never occurred to me once that, perhaps I shouldn’t bother.
It’s funny. I use the term “coming out” ironically;
It seems so bright, the idea of freedom. I’m out of the closet!
And yet, by doing so, I’m threading labels through my skin.
Like a jacket, or a pair of jeans, perhaps a closet is where I belong.
 
Oh, I get it: you’re a traditionalist. You need order, or else
You feel out of place. Well guess what: I feel out of place now.
Sixteen years it took me to climb out of that pit; sixteen years
Of humiliating myself as I try to pretend to be someone I’m not.
And your rules, your sick, judgemental rules… They almost make me wish
I hadn’t. Almost. But not quite, because despite everything, I’m proud
Of who I am. I’m proud that, instead of concealing myself behind a wall
Of lies, I am free. Yes, I kiss girls. That is love, and I’m proud of it.
Everyone should be.
The first poem I ever wrote, Labels holds a pretty special place in my heart. As with a lot of my newer work, Labels was written with the aim to challenge a current social issue that in very personal to me: homophobia. Please keep an open mind when reading, and enjoy!

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